Breaking free from your high performing job was just the beginning. Heal the personality traits that don’t serve you in this new chapter so you can step into your purpose with authenticity & ease.
Like me, you have been pushing your limits your entire life.
No matter how far you’ve come, you never feel like you’ve arrived.
Your drive to make the most of what you have surrounded you with equally brilliant people, leaving you unsure if you even qualify as an “overachiever.”
You know, deep down, that life will always get better, more fulfilling, more aligned, because you have the ability to make it so.
Even after rejections, failures, or when uncertainty creeps in, you’re certain that your skills and determination will bring you back on track and take you to the next level.
At each stage of your life, you hold a single, unchanging belief:
Real transformation isn’t about trying harder. It’s not about forcing yourself to change through discipline. It’s not about denying your needs.
Lasting change happens when something shifts inside—on the level of your body, your subconscious, your “hardware.” This is where we work with my clients.
When we realign your body and mind, struggles like burnout, addiction, or frustration start to dissolve naturally. It’s not about pushing harder—it’s about feeling freer and more aligned with who you truly are.
Dilemmas that once seemed unsolvable begin to make sense. You start to live with more clarity and purpose. This isn’t just surface-level coaching—this is real, embodied change.
I use advanced techniques borrowed from the cutting-edge of psychology.
My base modality is Internal Family Systems (IFS), a system for working directly with the subconscious. There is little talking or analysis; you do the work on yourself.
I use various techniques from Somatic Experiencing, Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, EMDR, and Systemic Constellations to create a personalized approach that works at the level where you need to shift.
Together, we’ll access parts of you that have been hidden or stuck for years, creating lasting, meaningful transformation.
We discuss your progress since the last session.
You tell me anything interesting or relevant that occured or happened to you since we last met.
With your goals and current state in mind, you decide what you would like to work on.
We notice and follow a trailhead—an invitation from your subconcious—, and dive into trancework.
Once we return, we discuss what you have to do between sessions to progress and integrate.
We work in trance, not hypnosis. You are awake and more connected to yourself than usual.
I guide you among sensations, emotions, and thoughts, exploring the elements of your triune brain and nervous system.
We start with protectors: the parts of your personality that help you get your needs met.
When appropriate, we dive deeper to process exiled emotions—such as pain or shame—, retrieve old selves, or reparent parts that didn’t get their early attachment needs met.
Eventually, I got into Stanford GSB, my dream MBA, with an essay I wrote in a day and a half.
I arrived at the most gorgeous campus on Earth knowing that it would change my life, but I had no idea how.
Despite all the opportunities surrounding me, I finally felt ready to rest. And I had to rest, because what came after was no walk in the park, either.
I had been going to talk therapy for years which kept me afloat, but it didn’t bring me the permanent healing I desired. I didn’t know how to feel things, so the therapy room was the place where I “analyzed” emotions—the way consulting taught me to deal with any problem.
Once I landed in California with a 2-year program ahead of me, I finally had space to heal.
The first step was to heal from the symptoms caused by overachieving. The burnout, the guilt, the anxiety, the addictions, and all the havoc they brought into my life.
What came next was much deeper: healing the wounds and unmet needs that caused my overachievement.
I approached the problem as any overachiever would. I researched the newest wave of trauma therapy, ripe with tools that promised a new type of transformation: healing the subconscious directly and permanently.
Once I knew that this was what I needed, I sought out and worked with the best therapists & practitioners in the world.
As I trust myself the most, upon the recommendation of my trauma therapist, I got trained in some of the methods we were using together. This allowed me to eventually become my own lead healer.
In essence, these methods are ways of working directly with someone’s subconscious, moving toward deconditioning and permanent freedom from past burdens.
It became clear to me that this would be extremely valuable as a coaching tool, especially for people, who, like me, tend to solve problems by thinking through them.
In 2023, I started my coaching practice. I have since spent over 800 hours delivering private coaching, and thousands of hours perfecting my approach based on Internal Family Systems and other synergistic methods.
Since 2024, I work exclusively with overachievers navigating the challenges of a mid-career, mid-life transition. I use a combination of coaching, Internal Family Systems, and systems building as strategic tools to support the identity shift that follows once high performers decide to transition away from the systems and personality traits that took them this far, but won’t take them to their destinations.
Fastest direct-to-associate promotion path in Central Europe.
Never got fired, despite routinely upsetting powerful people.
“All your karma is about to pay off” — fortune teller in Bangkok
An hour later, I got laid off with a generous severance.
Private 3-6 month Internal Family Systems Coaching programs start at $500 / month.
The first step is to book a free 30-minute consult. We will talk about where you are in your journey, what are your goals, and whether we’re a good fit to work together.
